Choices, we all have them, and whether we admit it or not , we all want to be somebody’s choice.
Do you desire to be the guy or girl’s number one?
Do you want to be the favorite child ?
If you have answered yes to these ….. you are guilty !
What if you aren’t chosen? You see, we all have to be cognizant of the fact that the action of others are completely out of our control. As humans we have the ability and the right to take charge of our lives, this includes but is not limited to our happiness and the people we want to be on our journey. For this reason, it is important to recognize that the ‘choice’ may not be you.
You probably won’t be number one.
You most definitely may not be the favorite child.
What do you do? …….. Choose you!
Choose your happiness and endeavor to make it independent of the actions and feelings of others. Once you are comfortable with yourself , and you are facing each situation with grace and positivity then you will be better equipped to handle the choice of others.
You should always be your first choice, true validation comes from within.
How do you handle rejection? let me know in the comments.